The Other Women

Jodie:  The 1st of the girls I caught the Narc talking inappropriately with.  Not sure how they know each other, all I do know is that they had trysts in their teens and twenties.  *I think she could be married or with someone.  They talked about getting together in their thirties to continue their once a decade trysts.

Debbie: An older woman that the Narc had dated right before me.  He actually brought her as his date to one of my shows before he and I started dating At first he told me they never slept together, and that she only “choked” on his dick. (that was lie.  They did have sex.  He would slip up later and admit that they had.) Not that it should matter as that all had happened before we dated, however,  it’s the lying on his part. She was one of the women that he still tried to maintain constant contact with, even though I asked him not to, during the time he and I were together.  He often sent her very sexually flitatious messages reminiscing about their sexual encounters.

 Tobey: Some “crazy” broad that the Narc went out with here and there.  They never slept together, beacuse according to the Narc, all she wanted was for him to buy her things and give her money.  Yet that didn’t stop him from maintaining constant contact with her and constantly fishing if he could ever have another chance with her.  As if to change her mind, he would always bring up the fact that he has a big dick.  During the three years we dated, anytime her name would come up he would comment how much weight she had put on and how she was becoming  a fat pig.  Yet this didn’t stop him from constantly commenting and liking her Facebook pictures while we were together.

Michigan: A married girl whom the Narc carried on with behind my back here and there during the 1st year and a half or so of our relationship.  They had dated a while before the Narc and I got together. (*also while she was still married) The Narc always maintained that she was fucking nuts and that he dodged a bullet with this one. Meanwhile, he was trying to set up a rendezvous with her and find them a 3rd so they could have a threesome in the state where she lived.  He seems to downplay the importance of their relationship and perhaps how attached he may have been to her . . . as though it didn’t mean much to him.

Rochelle: I have no idea how these two became acquainted.  She told me it was from Myspace, but I have a sneaking suspicion it was probably somewhere else.  She revealed to me that she would go by a moniker of Fuck doll on some sites, which I KNOW would have peaked the Narc’s interest.  daddy seemed to be somewhat obsessed with her. He was ALWAYS perusing through her pictures, trying to contact her after I caught him calling her babydoll (which was what he would call me.)  She would later reveal to me that he actually tried to meet up with her, while she was in town, and while we were still together.  Because of her and The Narc messing around, her the boyfriend contacted me in regards to discussing their fuckery.  He would later become a close friend of mine.

Jen: A girl that the Narc dated seriously in high school and somewhat before he left for the service.  (I think?)  They became friends on FB (after he berated me for “friending every ex I had ever been with”) and started to have secret conversations with her.  He installed Skype so that they could Skype.  They would reminisce over their sex life.  I think she was really pushing for her and Narc to get back together or at least get something going.  *She is married and has two children I believe.  Her husband was in a work related accident that left him a paraplegic (or quad?  I dunno.)

Skank Face: I believe this was a random hook up that Narc had.  They probably talked for a bit first before getting together to fuck.  That’s basically all it was.  Just a fuck.  Of course, again, she was yet another Fuck Buddy that he friended after giving me shit for adding my male cast mates for a show I was in on my facebook.  There were conversations I found of them talking about him coming to kidnap her and fuck her and blah blah blah.

Stacy: Yet another girl the Narc had a random hook up with (before we were ever together). . .*while she was engaged no less, that he likes to keep around because she is a funny girl and her sense of humor matches his.  He will talk to her every once in a while, telling her that his “trunk misses her”(a pick up line he uses with all his girls.)  and that crazy chicks make his “dick hard”.  According to the Narc this talk means nothing, and is just joking around.  Yet If I mention any word referring to anything sexual, blatant or even in a joking manner with my friends, (females included) I am the one being disrespectful.

K: Some lady he probably met on alt.com.  I found a chat of theirs on his phone, where he talked about how the whole D/s relationship was so intimate, how he wanted to “pick her brain” and blah blah puke puke.

Shayna– The Narc met this chick on Collarme, towards the end of our relationship. They carried on for about a good two months or so, texting back and forth.  I never saw what transpired between them, what was said, what was discussed.  I only know about her because I was watching The Narc’s cell phone bill and kept seeing her number come up.  I called it and got her VM and that was how I learned of her name.  When I confronted him about his activity on Collarme, I called and spoke to her just to verify that was indeed where they had met.  She confirmed and told me that she had no idea he had a girlfriend.  That he never told her.  (Even though when I confronted him about her, he told me he had told her.) She told me that had she known, that she would have never started talking to him, and after our phone call vowed to never talk to him again.

These are only the ones that I came across.  Whether or not there were more, it’s hard to say.  It was all fine and good for him to have female “friends” or “acquaintances” even if those connections had a history of some sort of sex attached to it.  While on the other hand, any male I came into contact with, whether it had been work related, related to my hobbies, or any of my past lovers, even on the most mundane innocent encounters, I was immediately told that I was disrespecting him and our relationship.

Funny.

*I am not pointing out the relationship status of these women to throw any kind of judgment on them, but to point out that while the Narc felt it was fine by his standards to judge me and hold my past discretions as though I did them to him personally, and that it was a flaw on my moral character, he felt that no responsibility or moral ethics fell on him for his involvement with attached women.

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3 Responses to “The Other Women”

  1. Why do you still call this man your daddy? You know of these indiscretions and either he is really bad at hiding this from you or he doesn’t care whether you know.

    • He’s not my “daddy” anymore. He made it very apparent that it’s too much work. . . especially when it comes to me. Not only that, but he doesn’t fucking deserve that title after all the shit he’s been pulling.

      • I’m sorry. You are right though, he doesn’t deserve that title. I haven’t read enough here to guess where you will end up next. I will, though.

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